Showing posts with label Blogging. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Blogging. Show all posts

Monday, September 14, 2009

Blogging week against Assholes

In Addition of all the Syrian bloggers ( blogging against something…) I choose to continue Abu Fares blogpost about Assholes ( I hope you wont mind abu fares) because lately assholes have been multiplied unfortunately and their numbers are still increasing without giving it a serious consideration!!
Starting with a famous saying “ if Assholes could fly this place would be an Airport”

1. There are men that tells women that they love them and cherish them, until they get them into their beds and once they get them there, the next day they stop calling, I don’t like them

2. There are men, that have wives like angels and even though they treat them like shit and cheat on them
I don’t like them.

3. There are men that brag about them selves and what they own just to get the other sex attention
I don’t like them

4. There are men that give lots of promises but never keep them, I don’t like them.

5. There are men that still uses aggression and beat up women I don’t like them.

6. There are men that rapes the innocence of childhood. I don’t like them

7. There are men that sells their own blood hood ( Father, mother, siblings) just for a personal benefit, I don’t like them

8. There are men who thinks that women are weak and can’t handle life by them selves, I don’t like them

9. There are men who consider if their ( sisters, daughters) are in love before marriage, is shameful and dishonorable and she should be killed, I don’t like them.

10. There are men who thinks that women shouldn’t be sexually satisfied, and they are only tools for their pleasures. I don’t like them.

Wednesday, January 02, 2008

2008 Resolutions

Looking back on my last year I realized how full of activity it was. As a resolution I can straightforwardly say it was a comfortably busy one. Well no big achievements but not bad too it was a good year …lots of changes, traits and mentally wise. Being stable in my current job…been also a year since started it which is an achievement heh I tend to change jobs a lot.
Stared and ended a relationship. actually short term relationships aren’t really my type but that was it!!


Met lots of amazing people made good friendships, traveled 3 times in one year that’s cool too, Been to lots of events and concerts. Been working on my little private business hopefully it will flourish in the upcoming year.
I usually don’t write my new year resolutions but what the heck they always say write down what your aim for so you remember them,so my 10 resolutions for the new year are:


1. Quit smoking ( yea I say that every year but this year am gonna try for real)
2. fit in fitness
3. learn something new ( maybe a new language, maybe some new craft course, or even going back to learning Salsa)
4. get organized ( I’m a big mess no need to explain more)
5. fall in love (hmmmm no comment)
6. get involved in more activities
7. help others
8. go back to writing and blogging
9. enjoy my life and be thankful
10. give love to my family and friends



Well welcome 2008 goodbye 2007 wishing you all a blissful and perfect year

Monday, September 10, 2007

On Love...

I know I've been away from my blog for a while and I hate to see it like that. So deserted . Although I've been in full energy… moved a lot, worked like a mule, seen lots of people, attended many events, but I couldn't manage to put my fingers to type….I've been thinking lately about love…what are the standers for finding the true love of your life???? I actually didn’t find an answer to that question
The quality of true love is highly debated among different people. Some people
Believe true love relies on rules or that it simply does not exist. However, true love is an Unconditional love between two people, when two people love each other for who They are. Not what they have or what they give....



I used to think that once you fall in love. You will only love that person for the rest of you life but it turns out to be a big bully. Time is able to make you forget all about your past love and again you find your self in love…and so on, you love once and twice and trice so I guess there's no stander for being in love once and forever. And you discover new things about love every time you fall in love…unfortunately for me there wasn't no happy endings. We are all in this holy search of love so we experience many kinds of it,,, I admit I hardly can fall in love but once I'm there, there is no turning back for me I fight I sacrifice I give I Cherish I go head over heels.
To me, love is not just a feeling, but it is the way that people treat the ones they care for. People should treat the ones they love so considerately. Love, in my eyes, is making that sacrifice for someone, knowing that it might be regretful sooner or later. Love is how a person makes another person feel when they are in their presence. Many people show or express their love for someone in different ways. No matter what the way is. Love is in the actions that a person makes, not the words that are said to them.


I once read something about three kinds of love…it is manifested in three ways, Eros, Philia and Agape.
The love between 2 persons is Named Eros, the sexual attarction Eros can manifest in 2 ways, the good way: when love between the two grows strong and they became dependent on one another and can't be apart, they build something together and they'll always be happy and satisfied with each other.
The bad way: when each part feels insecure and his freedom is restricted by the other part. Feeling that they sacrifice much. So Then Eros the spirit of love that unites the 2 parts will show the bad side of it.
Eros will not manifest the same to all people and no one can escape Eros everybody need his presence in life, sometimes Eros make us feel Depart from the whole world and isolated in loneliness.


Philia is the love under the form of friendship or brotherhood its what you feel toward other people. When the flame of Eros starts to fade Philia maintain the family united.

Agape is the highest manifestation of love, Agape is total love, love that devour the ones whose living it. Who experience and know Agape will see that nothing in this life is more important than love. This's the love that God feel for his people. Love that can change the history of human kind.


We people won't feel that higher love; but we may experience another form of Agape. Life might sound unfair for some of us but the love that devour can make absolutely anything sound unimportant.
(Agape is the Love that devour)
Luther king said once: that when Jesus said that we must love our enemy he was referring to Agape. Because according to him its impossible to love our enemies who makes us suffer, Agape is higher than love it’s a feeling that can fill every gap in this world.

The other form of Agape that people feel usually is the feeling of Enthusiasm and ecstasy.
Enthusiasm is agape toward an Idea or anything that we went thorough. When we love and believe from our deepest souls in something we feel the strongest and an immense serenity that comes from our pledge that nothing will put off our beliefs. This force makes us take the right decisions at the right time, and when we reach our target we feel amazed by our own power because in a fight for righteousness nothing can stand in our way. We are simply guided by our Enthusiasm.

I wish we all have the ability to be guided by that higher love in life
Now going back to the true love; I think True love is exhilarating, confusing, emotional, exhausting, and full of give and take.

Wednesday, July 04, 2007

Pride!!!!!!

Your sin has been measured. You have committed many sins, but Pride is the mortal sin that has done you in. Just below, discover your full sinful breakdown and learn what it is about you that codemns you to hell.

Greed:Medium
Gluttony:Medium
Wrath:Medium
Sloth:Medium
Envy:Medium
Lust:Medium
Pride:Very High

Take the Seven Deadly Sins Quiz


errrrrrr...well we all are going to pass by there eventually!!!!!

Thursday, June 21, 2007

You think you know???

I'm sorry but I've been paralyzed not able to move not able to express my self
not able to think nor to write… So hollow and Intellectually Bankrupt.
After this phase I realized something which is:

we think we know everything about life; we are so sure how to handle it, but in fact we know nothing of it, we are totally ignorant .
For as long as I can remember I have looked for answers and tried to fit all the pieces together in a way that made sense and I could use myself.

And of course you do find answers if you really want to know and it did all start to make sense to me. But none of that really did me that much good.
everything I ever learnt brought me to one conclusion: That every tip, trick, idea, concept and piece of good advice is just one more piece of mind baggage that has to be let go of if we want to know what's Real. Not to know what's real intellectually - but to know it personally - to live it.

Well this conclusion can sound dispiriting. not many of us feel a limitless love inside and outside. We are disparately searching for it , We don't feel as we are the source of inspiration and life itself and capable of working miracles! But what im sure of is that everything in life happens for a reason.


All we can do is to get together and know what's real, how crazy it would be to think we could rediscover life again on our own….dinner parties, hanging out with a friend, exploring new things, a chance encounter with total stranger. An accidental coming together. We are all a part of this oneness of life.
Life that we will never understand 100% because it's so unpredictable. Well maybe it better left that way. And being alive is enough; I guess we are all perfect exactly how we are.





Love your self and love life

Monday, May 21, 2007

Tag Tag...who's there??

Yaser is there with a Tag for me and it goes
Post Ten Pleasures of yours, here you go :


1- staying late in bed in weekends
2- Watching a good movie and getting so emotional about it.
3- Having a good book and don't let go of it till Its finished
4- Eye contact with total strangers I like :p
5- Being around my friends
6- My little girly chit chat with mama
7- First kisses
8- Smell of rain
9- Finding new comments on my blog
10- Having a cigi after a good meal or with a good coffee
11- Driving my car while listening to my music collection
12- Being loved
13- .....


Okay okay I'll stop I know it suppose to be only ten pleasures but the list wont finish at this point :D

yalla i tag everybody

Friday, March 02, 2007

One of a kind?!?!

I don’t want to sound stuck up or arrogant by this…but one day a friend of mine told me I’m one in a million…which really made me wonder am I really one in a million??
I mean I bet there’s thousands and thousands of others like me…what really makes me so special?
Well I know my friend told me that as a compliment…but what if I really want to be one in a million? would I sound so egotistic??
Furthermore What obvious scares me is that what if I’m not being my self and if I’m really my self that doesn’t mean there’s no one else like me …a leak of authenticity maybe?

Well there might be someone that carries the same thoughts as mine the same characteristics, Someone that likes to do the same things I do. Someone that got the same style as I do.
So what makes us so special??? How can we be unique if there’s so many people like us?
To wish to be unique is a universal human property. I think that The very existence of uniqueness is not dependent on the judgment of a group of humans.

I asked and so many have told me every human being is "special", one of a kind
But how’ in the world is that???
In other words, there are numerous characteristics and traits common to two specimen of the same species. On the other hand, there are characteristics and traits, which set them apart. But I am not talking here about characters and traits There must exist a quantitative point where it would be safe to say that there’s no difference between outweighs and similarity, the "Point of Uniqueness", in which all individuals are rendered unique.
So what’s the whole use of being unique if all others are too??

More over the worse is being compared to someone!!…I don’t know if it’s right or wrong
Or maybe its a complex …I don’t really know if I’m making any sense out of this either.

Errrrrr


updated:
I added a new mini poll so please be kind and vote on the same topic

Saturday, February 10, 2007

One year of blogging

Hurray my blog is officially one year old, one year ago on the same day I started this blog... Actually it came out unpredictable. I wasn't sure about the main theme of it. Syrian to the bone just popped out of my brain and there it was, I didn't know if someone ever gonna visit it or ever comment on my posts, so I was surprised to have that number of visitors. I know I haven't been an active blogger posting on a daily bases but I think what I posted so far I mean a total of 61 posts are not bad.

Well my blog is growing older so am I, I guess what you write is getting older too I mean Ithought get old too … aging thoughts turn to full circles errr what is that suppose to mean??!!!

Anywayzz After a year of blogging, it's natural to think about the aging process. I've been doing so since last year.

So I decided to take a blogthing test and see what age my heart is and it turns out that im 20 at heart so I guess im just living my age :) well for a 27 year old lady im still at twenties hehe.

Ehh Happy Anniversary my dear blog.



You Are 20 Years Old

Under 12: You are a kid at heart. You still have an optimistic life view - and you look at the world with awe.

13-19: You are a teenager at heart. You question authority and are still trying to find your place in this world.

20-29: You are a twentysomething at heart. You feel excited about what's to come... love, work, and new experiences.

30-39: You are a thirtysomething at heart. You've had a taste of success and true love, but you want more!

40+: You are a mature adult. You've been through most of the ups and downs of life already. Now you get to sit back and relax.

Thursday, February 01, 2007

Gimme 5!!

Yea Five things you don't know about me ....thanks to GrayFox for the tag, well actually i'm not that good in writing about my self but i gave it a try...






1- I’m kindda suppositious and a sign believer I look for signs every where, and if am not looking for signs, signs looks for me. I encounter strange signs and for each there’s some interpretation for me. If the sign are bad I don’t like to interpret them if they are good I enjoy to interpret them.




2- I’m a claustrophobic I hate narrow small places and get nervous when I have to take an elevator by my self .



3- I can be at the top of a dynamical rate and very hyper as I can be so lazy and sluggish.



4- I’m obsessed with shoes and bags and I love to buy lots of them and even collect them .




5- I am fascinated by discovering new things new places, trying new emotions, new feelings and meeting new smart intellectual strange people.
I tag Yaser

Thursday, January 11, 2007

Somewhat lonesome

So I haven’t been updating my blog much lately, probably because I’ve been busy since I’ve start working 2 months ago and also studying for this few exams I have this semester and hopefully it will be my last as well.
Haven’t been complaining much, the year started well for me family, and financially wise as for personal life I’m not sure yet things have been so mixed up for me and I guess I’ve been going through the stage of being lonesome or maybe feeling lonly

Some on said “loneliness is the worst of all evils. Unlike hunger, thirst and illness, which force us to take an attitude when they affect us, loneliness is often masked under an aura of virtue and renunciation.”


But then The worst is feeling alone while you’re surrounded by many people, people you know, people you don’t know, people you care about, people you don’t care about. People you love and people you hate.

My feeling alone is almost at a close, and I must say that I feel a little split between it being a waste and it feeling like what my soul needed; moments to sit back and take a mental inventory. Time to reflect on my life and bounce ideas off of myself.

Maybe it is that I miss being in love

Maybe I miss all of the comfort that it comes with. I miss the small nuances and epic emotions that flood my being. I miss having the certainty that being in love provides. I miss the sanctuary it gives. I miss the holding hands… I’m afraid I’ve grown to fear love and those fishing with it’s utterance. I am afraid that I might never know what being in love again is. Maybe nobody ever really does; or maybe it’s just that love is so different from one person to the next.



Ahhh lonliness brings such lonesome feelings ...

Wednesday, November 15, 2006

Life goes on!!!

So You lose someone so dear …so what life goes on!
You lost your money in bad business….so what life goes on!
You favorite team lost the game… so what life goes on!
You drop ketchup on your favorite dress… life goes on!
You didn’t pass the exam…life goes on!
You break up with your love one…life goes on!

The common comment that people leave….
But On the other hand


You see innocent people dying everyday…
Destruction within human hands
Sick children starving …
Hypocrites ruling the world…
Abhorrence and hatred among us…
Disasters and catastrophes…
Crimes Rape and murder …
Drugs, violence, diseases…


I wonder if life still goes on?
Is it Fair?

Tuesday, September 05, 2006

Tagged de nouveau :)

Okay Abu Fares here you go your nice questions i really enjoyed answering :




1.Which is the single best post you’ve read on any blog? Please provide link.

A. That’s a hard one really because I read many good posts but I’ll give A link I like ANYWAY

http://colorfulsyria.spaces.live.com/blog/cns!F3D4B517D834546A!460.entry


2. Which is the best post you’ve written? Which is your worst? Please provide links.

A. Okay all of my posts are just great ( being modest) no really well I have days of bad writing and days of good writing

Bas the one I love the most is this one
http://syrianita.blogspot.com/2006/02/home-sweet-home.html

the one I hate is

http://syrianita.blogspot.com/2006/02/wee-wee-wee.html



3. How about a place you’ve never been to but would very much like to see.

A. Well I want to see south america (cancun, machu picchu, Rio de janeiro, san paulo...) lots of places to be seen there



4. If you were a member of the opposite sex, what would you have done differently?

A. mmmmmm I would want be super man and save the world



5. Do you remember a childhood recurrent dream or nightmare? Good or bad, tell us about it.

A. yea and I still have it its kind of nightmare…me in this Gothic huge hotel with lots of corridors and halls and me always trying to take the elevator to go to this certain room….but I always end up stuck in the elevator and it cracks down and starts to fall with me in it. I see the same hotel every time but sometimes with different ppl in it... scary huh



6. Make me laugh or make me cry, put your words to use.

A. I choose to make you laugh with this photo I found around
It just a note a shopkeeper left


http://elgolden.net/gallery/albums/uploaded/image001_2.jpg


7. Do you regret the unfulfilled dreams, the inaccessible roads, the uncharted lands?

A.never regreted anything, I still have the whole life so I better fullfill my dreams access all roads and discover new lands. cuz then I will really regret I didn’t



8. What is a friend to you? And what are you to a friend?

A. a friend for me is someone whom I dare to be myself with, is someone I cannot live without a friend is someone who is there for me not only in good times. A friend is someone I cherish and trust my whole life.

As for what I am for a friend. I’m the shoulder to lean on in hard times
Im the smile he seeks when feeling down.

Actually I have a few good good friends but I know they treasure me and I do the same and that what matters.


9. T.S. Eliot measured his life with coffee spoons, how about you?

A. well I’m no T.S. Eliot so I have to say that I measure it with the simple stages of life


10. Write your own epitaph, or if that is too hard, how would you like your epitaph to read?

A. smile…for here lies a person that knew how to smile once
and please sing her a song before you leave



P.S: i forgot to forward the tag so i'm tagging :
Adam
Jacob from dotDecay
Highlander
Sam
Hattori
And Bilal


enjoy...

Tuesday, July 18, 2006

Syrian Bloggers: Today, We Are All Lebanese



Today, we are all lebanese

Lebanon has been sentenced to death. On Wednesday 12 July, she was put in prison, and now she's being tortured.Israel's war is with Lebanon's civilians. Nearly every person killed has been a civilian. Power stations, bridges and petrol stations have been targeted.

Israel has warned residents to get out of certain villages, but bombed roads to make it difficult - and refugee convoys have been picked out for deadly air raids.And getting out of the country is impossible now too. The airport has been destroyed, the sea ports are blockaded, and the border posts and highways have been razed to the ground.

Lebanon is held hostage to the angry Israeli war machine. And now more than ever, Syrians bloggers, just like every Syrian stand by her.Another generation of Lebanese will know nothing but war.


We can't let this happen, Again.

Monday, May 01, 2006

My 1st Blogger meeting

Today I had my 1st blogger meeting which I guess you all think it was with a fellow blogger from Syria.

Which it wasn't!!


Okay lemme tell you how it happened…one day while I was checking my state counter I noticed that I had many visits coming from this certain blog so I click to see whom blog was it….well it turned out to be the blog of an interesting bright Libyan Lady. And since she was in a visit to Syria she decided to make some introductions to some of the Syrian blogs and my blog was included.

Anyway she was talking about not meeting any of the Syrian bloggers check her blog to see what I’m talking about ( From the Rock )

And then I dropped her a comment asking if she ever had second thoughts about meeting some Syrian bloggers ….and things went so fast that we decided to meet up

Anyway Highlander it was a great pleasure meeting you, I had a great time wallahi
and i hope we'll do it again sometimes.

there you are My 1st international blogger meeting

And I do really recommend checking her Blog

Friday, April 21, 2006

I Got tagged too

Yep I was and by Sam…thanks for tagging me


Place an X by all the things you've done. This is for your entire life:


(X) Smoked a cigarette… I smoke socialy
( ) Drank so much you threw up.
( ) Crashed a friend's car….
(X) Stolen a car…yea my dad’s cuz he didn’t want me to drive back then
(X) Been in love.
(X) Been dumped.
( ) Shoplifted
(X) Quit your job
( ) Been in a fist fight
( ) Snuck out of your parent's house…
(X) Had feelings for someone who didn't have them back.
( ) Been arrested.
( ) Gone on a blind date
(X) Lied to a friend....did it for their best
(X) Skipped school…those where the best days of my life
( ) Seen someone die.
( ) Been to Canada
( ) Been to Mexico…but I want to
(X) Been on a plane
(X) Been lost…lots of times
( ) Been on the opposite side of the country…uhh!!
( ) Swam in the ocean…
(X) Felt like dying
(X) Cried yourself to sleep,
(X) Played cops and robbers… when I was a kid and I still love to play hide and Seek
(X) Recently colored your hair….i had all the colors u can imagin, but now its my natural color

(X) Done something you told yourself you wouldn't…hehe tell me about it
(X) Made prank phone calls…I loved to do it
( ) Laughed until some kind of beverage came out of your nose
(X) Caught a snowflake on your tongue
(X) Danced in the rain,
(X) Written a letter to Santa Claus,
( ) Been kissed under the mistletoe,
(X) Watched the sun rise with someone you care about,
(X) Blown bubble.
( ) Made a bonfire on the beach…I did but not on the beach
( ) Crashed a party
(X) Gone roller-skating
(X) Ice-skating…and I was never good always falled down



I tag Ihsan

Thursday, April 20, 2006

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Not that I was benefiting from the Google adsense, all what I have earned was in total 2.23$.
And i also added it for Beautifying my blog
...but is this part of the siege imposed on Syria????


Anywayz Thanks Google

oh yea and Thanks Ben

Wednesday, March 15, 2006

All Syrian Bloggers in one site

For more Syrian blogs you can check this new site www.syplanet.com

Almost all Syrian bloggers are listed at Syria planet.
the site is updated automatically every time a new post is published

Many Thanks to all whose behind this great project

Friday, February 10, 2006

A Start


كل المدن لها تاريخ الا دمشق فمنها بدأ التاريخ
Here we start …well I was browsing this certain Site when I came a cross a link that took me to what is called a blog… I started to read and read and this blog led me to another blog and so on …and I liked what was writing in many of those bloggs. And many of them where actually bloggs written by Syrian people. I was excited to read their thoughts
Was astonished of how well cultured and educated and good English command they have…and was really proud of that…this is our Bright Syrian Youth full of bright Ideas and thoughts…when i used to talk to friends from other countries they’ve always asked me that they were surprised to find a Syrian young girl with such ideas and good English. and I’ve always start defending and telling them that they are mistaken and that almost all Syrian young people are well educated…which now is absolutely proven after browsing through those blogs that I came by, by chance.


God bless you all and long live Syria